thing fall apart by achebe Videos

Did you mean?

Search Results - Showing 0 - 12 Of 79

A married man says he became “obsessed” with another woman after meeting her at a course - but his wife has since forgiven him after realising it “wasn’t his fault”.<br/><br/>Ruth Perl, 58, and her husband David, 64, have spent 13 years recovering from the incident.<br/><br/>David never acted on his feelings towards the person he fancied - but he chose to tell the woman after confiding in Ruth.<br/><br/>He started researching an emotional experience known as ‘limerence’ - which means intrusive, romantic thoughts about another person. <br/><br/>David realised his feelings were unwanted - he had no control over them and wasn't interested in beginning an affair with the woman. <br/><br/>After telling Ruth about his realisation, the couple spent time rebuilding their relationship - and say they’re happier than ever.<br/><br/>David, a couples’ therapist from St. Albans, Herts., said: “It wasn’t a normal crush, it was weird and disturbing - but we’ve put in the years to heal ourselves since.<br/><br/>“It was a difficult one - I did end up telling the other person, as I was encouraged to do so through therapy.<br/><br/>“I think she was horrified - in hindsight, it was really unfair to put that on her.<br/><br/>“But it’s all about forgiveness, we’ve done the work and are happier than ever.”<br/><br/>David met the woman he developed feelings for on January 14, 2011 - after chatting to her at a training course.<br/><br/>Their conversation lasted less than 20 minutes, but David could feel he was “besotted” by her - without being able to put a finger on why.<br/><br/>“I’ve had crushes before,” he added. “We both have. But nothing like this - this was really unusual.”<br/><br/>David thought about her, night-and-day, for weeks.<br/><br/>He looked online at forums about “obsessive love” - and came across a post about limerence.<br/><br/>He said: “I thought, 'jeez, this is what I’ve got to a T.'<br/><br/>“Something’s not right - I was absolutely obsessed and I only spoke to her for 20 minutes.<br/><br/>“I kept going over every single word she said to me, every little action.<br/><br/>“The moment I’d wake up, I’d rehearse in my head what I might say to her if she came up to talk to me.<br/><br/>“I’d experience soaring highs if she replied to an email - and extreme lows if she didn’t.<br/><br/>“It was like an intermittent reward.”<br/><br/>Knowing the feeling wasn’t going to go away any time soon, he decided to tell Ruth - who also works as a couples’ therapist.<br/><br/>She said: “David told me, and this was all going on about five days after my dad’s funeral.<br/><br/>“I was in horrific grief at the time, and so my first thoughts were: ‘Oh, for god’s sake. How can you be so bloody stupid?’<br/><br/>“My dad had just died, and my husband wanted to p*ss off into fantasy land.<br/><br/>“We went into freefall, and it was a very, very difficult 12 months.”<br/><br/>After choosing to concentrate on grieving for her dad for a year, Ruth says she “finally had the brain capacity” to sit down with David, and ask him what was going on.<br/><br/>He hadn’t acted on his feelings - and actively decided he wouldn’t “consummate” the crush.<br/><br/>“David reached out to me,” Ruth said. “He asked me, ‘please help me understand what’s going on.’<br/><br/>“He was so confused. I asked him if he still wanted to be married, and he said, ‘I don’t want to throw away what we’ve got.’<br/><br/>“I told him to sit in the confusion, and I’d do what I could to support him.<br/><br/>“But I knew that what will be will be, we might not necessarily make it out of this.”<br/><br/>David said: “We started having marriage counselling - and one thing I want to stress is it isn’t an excuse to cheat.<br/><br/>“I was responsible for what I did - but it did make me realise that often, people don’t set out to have an affair.”<br/><br/>David explored some of the ways therapists encourage people to “heal” from limerence - including starving themselves from contact, or consummating it with the other person.<br/><br/>He settled on going to therapy, and letting the woman know he couldn’t speak to her anymore.<br/><br/>Now, David and Ruth help other couples going through the same thing - and have taught their children, Hannah-Mai, 32, and Isobel, 29, how to value their own relationships.<br/><br/>Ruth said: “It was important our two daughters knew about all this.<br/><br/>“They were older teenagers when this was all going on, and they understood it.<br/><br/>“We thought it was very important for them to understand that all marriages have differences - but you don’t throw the towel in when the going gets tough.<br/><br/>“Even when you’re talking about a full-blown physical affair. Once is a mistake, twice is a habit.”
⏲ 4:49 👁 28M
Fancyread
⏲ 6 hours 30 minutes 41 seconds 👁 207.9K
OneMinBooks
⏲ 5 minutes 1 second 👁 54.9K
The single marks Kane and Mello’s second collaboration after the release of “One Thing Right” in 2019. “Mello texted me after one of my shows and he said, ‘Are you ready for part 2?’” Kane said of the new song. “I heard the song and we recorded it.”
⏲ 0:37 👁 14.4M
مشتاق احمد
⏲ 6 hours 30 minutes 13 seconds 👁 38.4K
CrashCourse
⏲ 10 minutes 19 seconds 👁 703.8K
If you're not interested in miles or points one of these best cashback credit cards might be just the thing to get money back with a minimum of games.
⏲ 3:41 👁 32.2M
Wisecrack
⏲ 4 minutes 9 seconds 👁 289.9K
BBC Newsnight
⏲ 1 minute 48 seconds 👁 22.2K
What's the best thing to do In Leeds this May Bank Holiday weekend?
⏲ 0:51 👁 25.7M
PBS NewsHour
⏲ 8 minutes 49 seconds 👁 269.3K
Monique Parent
⏲ 20 minutes 9 seconds 👁 1.3K
Pages 1 Of 7
... ...
Next »

Related Searches

Search Videos

Recent Searches

www ipl 2015 | nodosaur dinosaur | i love your eat me | bangla nxn com চি কলেজ ছাত্রীর ও ছবি•à§‹à¦²à¦•à¦¾à¦¤à¦¾à¦° চৠদাচৠদী new video সরাসরিচোদাচৠদà | free websites for movies and tv shows | ঐশীহি বাপি com hindi movie coma village school girl | sgip8s1rywm | karit www vido | edbszhzrlqy | কুকুরের সাথে মানুষের video | 170620105469www dhakawap mobi এর এবং বড় বড় টো | x8p31tn | bangla movie song karar oi louho | www 讖亥ィ 迺­ | dinosaurs game 240x320 java fifa games for nigel foo android and higher | alparslan 124 episode 62 124 urdu dubbed season 1 | ইসনেক ভিডিও 2022 সাল | not out movie in full hindi dubbed | bangla movie song daru chini deep dur di 嚙踝蕭瞍望頛詨株餅 নায়িকা মাহি girl kajal nakad ছাড়া খাটে শুয়ে আছে | fight night round | ভাবীর সাথে ফোন | kokatar roso golla hot song | alif lay la | amar gum parani bondhu kon asmaner tatmra | quincy ma anonib | gram banglar videos chtyangla new audio mp3 songsndian dancedhamdnat bangla gojol nate rasul download | প্রতিদিন ভোর হয় সূর্য ওঠে mp3 song | 4ormulator v4 | ogochore mp3 song echo nokia moyuri photola mira vai jakanak | saree wear navel | he tarunno tumi jomin asmane bangla mp3 song downloads | the double life of my billionaire husband | nanotechnology in medicine jobs | bangla new flim video | لبخوری زن ها در استخر 💋💋👙👙👙👙👙👙👙👙 | সাদা কাপর পরাইয়া | saleneon photo | ed asner dies | ma 10 pogla song lal shaky by | agony all mp3 songs bangla | vdm45006792 | 3x ভিডি়কা মাহির ও চাই হেটা মুকা বটই re dhol ar dhak mp4 song side nokia saran lips | x8msjny | indian bangla film buckskin song ding diana | » choda chode | droid applications | www bangla natok laddu mirndian | kamal thakur movie bangla dubbing | tume je kate korla am | x8ma9qh | kmkloo | sohagi bangla video comw xhindi com | ami shuna adiya bandhaiyachi mokkta sarkar | abar bhalobasar sad jage bappa bum dj songs in cola com | ছোট মেয়েদের ভিডিওিকা দে | hridoyer pata song by imran amp radit | cpt code 31086 | adult manga | maula ya challi mon ala |