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_92.jpg "A married man says he became “obsessed” with another woman after meeting her at a course - but his wife has since forgiven him after realising it “wasn’t his fault”.<br/><br/>Ruth Perl, 58, and her husband David, 64, have spent 13 years recovering from the incident.<br/><br/>David never acted on his feelings towards the person he fancied - but he chose to tell the woman after confiding in Ruth.<br/><br/>He started researching an emotional experience known as ‘limerence’ - which means intrusive, romantic thoughts about another person. <br/><br/>David realised his feelings were unwanted - he had no control over them and wasn't interested in beginning an affair with the woman. <br/><br/>After telling Ruth about his realisation, the couple spent time rebuilding their relationship - and say they’re happier than ever.<br/><br/>David, a couples’ therapist from St. Albans, Herts., said: “It wasn’t a normal crush, it was weird and disturbing - but we’ve put in the years to heal ourselves since.<br/><br/>“It was a difficult one - I did end up telling the other person, as I was encouraged to do so through therapy.<br/><br/>“I think she was horrified - in hindsight, it was really unfair to put that on her.<br/><br/>“But it’s all about forgiveness, we’ve done the work and are happier than ever.”<br/><br/>David met the woman he developed feelings for on January 14, 2011 - after chatting to her at a training course.<br/><br/>Their conversation lasted less than 20 minutes, but David could feel he was “besotted” by her - without being able to put a finger on why.<br/><br/>“I’ve had crushes before,” he added. “We both have. But nothing like this - this was really unusual.”<br/><br/>David thought about her, night-and-day, for weeks.<br/><br/>He looked online at forums about “obsessive love” - and came across a post about limerence.<br/><br/>He said: “I thought, 'jeez, this is what I’ve got to a T.'<br/><br/>“Something’s not right - I was absolutely obsessed and I only spoke to her for 20 minutes.<br/><br/>“I kept going over every single word she said to me, every little action.<br/><br/>“The moment I’d wake up, I’d rehearse in my head what I might say to her if she came up to talk to me.<br/><br/>“I’d experience soaring highs if she replied to an email - and extreme lows if she didn’t.<br/><br/>“It was like an intermittent reward.”<br/><br/>Knowing the feeling wasn’t going to go away any time soon, he decided to tell Ruth - who also works as a couples’ therapist.<br/><br/>She said: “David told me, and this was all going on about five days after my dad’s funeral.<br/><br/>“I was in horrific grief at the time, and so my first thoughts were: ‘Oh, for god’s sake. How can you be so bloody stupid?’<br/><br/>“My dad had just died, and my husband wanted to p*ss off into fantasy land.<br/><br/>“We went into freefall, and it was a very, very difficult 12 months.”<br/><br/>After choosing to concentrate on grieving for her dad for a year, Ruth says she “finally had the brain capacity” to sit down with David, and ask him what was going on.<br/><br/>He hadn’t acted on his feelings - and actively decided he wouldn’t “consummate” the crush.<br/><br/>“David reached out to me,” Ruth said. “He asked me, ‘please help me understand what’s going on.’<br/><br/>“He was so confused. I asked him if he still wanted to be married, and he said, ‘I don’t want to throw away what we’ve got.’<br/><br/>“I told him to sit in the confusion, and I’d do what I could to support him.<br/><br/>“But I knew that what will be will be, we might not necessarily make it out of this.”<br/><br/>David said: “We started having marriage counselling - and one thing I want to stress is it isn’t an excuse to cheat.<br/><br/>“I was responsible for what I did - but it did make me realise that often, people don’t set out to have an affair.”<br/><br/>David explored some of the ways therapists encourage people to “heal” from limerence - including starving themselves from contact, or consummating it with the other person.<br/><br/>He settled on going to therapy, and letting the woman know he couldn’t speak to her anymore.<br/><br/>Now, David and Ruth help other couples going through the same thing - and have taught their children, Hannah-Mai, 32, and Isobel, 29, how to value their own relationships.<br/><br/>Ruth said: “It was important our two daughters knew about all this.<br/><br/>“They were older teenagers when this was all going on, and they understood it.<br/><br/>“We thought it was very important for them to understand that all marriages have differences - but you don’t throw the towel in when the going gets tough.<br/><br/>“Even when you’re talking about a full-blown physical affair. Once is a mistake, twice is a habit.”")
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_dallas-mavericks-beat-the-los-angeles-clippers-114-101-win-series-4-2-124-kyrie-irving-30-points.jpg "The Dallas Mavericks knock off the Los Angeles Clippers 114-101 to move to the semi-finals against the Oklahoma City Thunder. <br/><br/>The first quarter the Mavs took no time getting in the groove of things. The last game against the Clippers in American Airlines Center Dallas took forever to get in the game and ended up getting down 31 points, they eventually came back but they had to beat a 31 point deficit. On Friday night they came ready to play immediately. Luke Doncic had 14 points in the first quarter aiding Dallas in a 34-26 point lead entering the second quarter. <br/><br/>Dallas held their own and kept their lead until three minutes left in the half. They started to play sloppy and gave up the lead letting the Clippers take a two point lead. Both teams ended up tied at the half 52-52. The Clippers held Doncic to just one point in the second quarter. <br/><br/>Mavs shot 39 percent from the floor, 25 percent from the three-point line, and 68 percent from the free-throw line. <br/><br/>Dallas outscored the Clippers 35-20 in the third quarter to take a 87-72 lead into the fourth quarter. Donic had 25 points, Kyrie Irving had 15 points, Gafford had 13 points. The offense was very well rounded which helped them take a 15 point lead into the fourth. <br/><br/>Mavs continued to rally in the fourth and took a 22 point lead with six minutes left in the game. Irving continued to cook and the players continued to capitalize on both ends of the floor to take the win. <br/><br/>Kyrie Irving led the Mavs with 30 points, Doncic added 28 points, and PJ Washington added 14 points. <br/><br/>Dallas will move on to the semi-finals and will head to Oklahoma to take on the Thunder. Game one will be on Tuesday night.")
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_kurulus-osman-episode-158-with-english-subtitles-124-etv-facts.jpg "Kurulus Osman Episode 158 With English Subtitles | Etv Facts<br/>Watch this episode on my website. This is also a way to financially support us. Thank you.<br/>LINK:<br/>https://kyakahan.com/archives/9875<br/>Episode 159 Trailer:<br/>WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN THE CONFRONTATION BETWEEN OSMAN BEY AND BORAN BEY?<br/>Osman Bey is fighting with all his might against the trap set for him. When they face each other in the trap, what will Osman Bey do to Boran? Will Boran's death be at the hands of Osman Bey?<br/><br/>MELIKE HATUN'S REVENGE PLAN<br/>Yakup Bey, Ibrahim Bey, and Melike Hatun have returned to the nomad market. Melike Hatun's only desire is to seek revenge from Alaeddin, Gonca, and all the Kayi tribe. Melike Hatun takes a surprising path for revenge. What is Melike Hatun's plan?<br/><br/>WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO GONCA HATUN?<br/>Gonca Hatun has been captured and brought to her father. What will be the fate of Gonca Hatun, who stands firm in front of Yakup Bey and defends her love?<br/><br/>ALAEDDIN BEY'S TRIAL<br/>As everything comes to a head, Osman Bey is determined to find Ahmet's killer and clear Alaeddin's name. The Judge (Kadi) who will preside over Alaeddin's trial is a key figure. Osman Bey believes that the real killer will be after this Judge. What will be Osman Bey's plan to find the real killer?<br/><br/>WHAT IS OSMAN BEY'S PLAN?<br/>Meanwhile, Melike Hatun meets with Ulcay and asks him to kill the Judge. Will Osman Bey's plan be able to prevent the Judge's death?")
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_92.webp "A married man says he became “obsessed” with another woman after meeting her at a course - but his wife has since forgiven him after realising it “wasn’t his fault”.<br/><br/>Ruth Perl, 58, and her husband David, 64, have spent 13 years recovering from the incident.<br/><br/>David never acted on his feelings towards the person he fancied - but he chose to tell the woman after confiding in Ruth.<br/><br/>He started researching an emotional experience known as ‘limerence’ - which means intrusive, romantic thoughts about another person. <br/><br/>David realised his feelings were unwanted - he had no control over them and wasn't interested in beginning an affair with the woman. <br/><br/>After telling Ruth about his realisation, the couple spent time rebuilding their relationship - and say they’re happier than ever.<br/><br/>David, a couples’ therapist from St. Albans, Herts., said: “It wasn’t a normal crush, it was weird and disturbing - but we’ve put in the years to heal ourselves since.<br/><br/>“It was a difficult one - I did end up telling the other person, as I was encouraged to do so through therapy.<br/><br/>“I think she was horrified - in hindsight, it was really unfair to put that on her.<br/><br/>“But it’s all about forgiveness, we’ve done the work and are happier than ever.”<br/><br/>David met the woman he developed feelings for on January 14, 2011 - after chatting to her at a training course.<br/><br/>Their conversation lasted less than 20 minutes, but David could feel he was “besotted” by her - without being able to put a finger on why.<br/><br/>“I’ve had crushes before,” he added. “We both have. But nothing like this - this was really unusual.”<br/><br/>David thought about her, night-and-day, for weeks.<br/><br/>He looked online at forums about “obsessive love” - and came across a post about limerence.<br/><br/>He said: “I thought, 'jeez, this is what I’ve got to a T.'<br/><br/>“Something’s not right - I was absolutely obsessed and I only spoke to her for 20 minutes.<br/><br/>“I kept going over every single word she said to me, every little action.<br/><br/>“The moment I’d wake up, I’d rehearse in my head what I might say to her if she came up to talk to me.<br/><br/>“I’d experience soaring highs if she replied to an email - and extreme lows if she didn’t.<br/><br/>“It was like an intermittent reward.”<br/><br/>Knowing the feeling wasn’t going to go away any time soon, he decided to tell Ruth - who also works as a couples’ therapist.<br/><br/>She said: “David told me, and this was all going on about five days after my dad’s funeral.<br/><br/>“I was in horrific grief at the time, and so my first thoughts were: ‘Oh, for god’s sake. How can you be so bloody stupid?’<br/><br/>“My dad had just died, and my husband wanted to p*ss off into fantasy land.<br/><br/>“We went into freefall, and it was a very, very difficult 12 months.”<br/><br/>After choosing to concentrate on grieving for her dad for a year, Ruth says she “finally had the brain capacity” to sit down with David, and ask him what was going on.<br/><br/>He hadn’t acted on his feelings - and actively decided he wouldn’t “consummate” the crush.<br/><br/>“David reached out to me,” Ruth said. “He asked me, ‘please help me understand what’s going on.’<br/><br/>“He was so confused. I asked him if he still wanted to be married, and he said, ‘I don’t want to throw away what we’ve got.’<br/><br/>“I told him to sit in the confusion, and I’d do what I could to support him.<br/><br/>“But I knew that what will be will be, we might not necessarily make it out of this.”<br/><br/>David said: “We started having marriage counselling - and one thing I want to stress is it isn’t an excuse to cheat.<br/><br/>“I was responsible for what I did - but it did make me realise that often, people don’t set out to have an affair.”<br/><br/>David explored some of the ways therapists encourage people to “heal” from limerence - including starving themselves from contact, or consummating it with the other person.<br/><br/>He settled on going to therapy, and letting the woman know he couldn’t speak to her anymore.<br/><br/>Now, David and Ruth help other couples going through the same thing - and have taught their children, Hannah-Mai, 32, and Isobel, 29, how to value their own relationships.<br/><br/>Ruth said: “It was important our two daughters knew about all this.<br/><br/>“They were older teenagers when this was all going on, and they understood it.<br/><br/>“We thought it was very important for them to understand that all marriages have differences - but you don’t throw the towel in when the going gets tough.<br/><br/>“Even when you’re talking about a full-blown physical affair. Once is a mistake, twice is a habit.”")
_dallas-mavericks-beat-the-los-angeles-clippers-114-101-win-series-4-2-124-kyrie-irving-30-points.webp "The Dallas Mavericks knock off the Los Angeles Clippers 114-101 to move to the semi-finals against the Oklahoma City Thunder. <br/><br/>The first quarter the Mavs took no time getting in the groove of things. The last game against the Clippers in American Airlines Center Dallas took forever to get in the game and ended up getting down 31 points, they eventually came back but they had to beat a 31 point deficit. On Friday night they came ready to play immediately. Luke Doncic had 14 points in the first quarter aiding Dallas in a 34-26 point lead entering the second quarter. <br/><br/>Dallas held their own and kept their lead until three minutes left in the half. They started to play sloppy and gave up the lead letting the Clippers take a two point lead. Both teams ended up tied at the half 52-52. The Clippers held Doncic to just one point in the second quarter. <br/><br/>Mavs shot 39 percent from the floor, 25 percent from the three-point line, and 68 percent from the free-throw line. <br/><br/>Dallas outscored the Clippers 35-20 in the third quarter to take a 87-72 lead into the fourth quarter. Donic had 25 points, Kyrie Irving had 15 points, Gafford had 13 points. The offense was very well rounded which helped them take a 15 point lead into the fourth. <br/><br/>Mavs continued to rally in the fourth and took a 22 point lead with six minutes left in the game. Irving continued to cook and the players continued to capitalize on both ends of the floor to take the win. <br/><br/>Kyrie Irving led the Mavs with 30 points, Doncic added 28 points, and PJ Washington added 14 points. <br/><br/>Dallas will move on to the semi-finals and will head to Oklahoma to take on the Thunder. Game one will be on Tuesday night.")
_naoya-inoue-vs-luis-nery-preview.webp "Naoya Inoue defends his undisputed super-bantamweight crown against Luis Nery on Monday.More than 50,000 fans will be in attendance at the Tokyo Dome to watch the Japanese superstar. It is the first time the venue has hosted a boxing event since Mike Tyson was stunned by James ‘Buster’ Douglas in 1990.")
_glasgows-kelvingrove-cafe-in-finnieston-make-their-whisky-sour.webp "We headed up to Kelvingrove Cafe in Finnieston.")
_kurulus-osman-episode-158-with-english-subtitles-124-etv-facts.webp "Kurulus Osman Episode 158 With English Subtitles | Etv Facts<br/>Watch this episode on my website. This is also a way to financially support us. Thank you.<br/>LINK:<br/>https://kyakahan.com/archives/9875<br/>Episode 159 Trailer:<br/>WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN THE CONFRONTATION BETWEEN OSMAN BEY AND BORAN BEY?<br/>Osman Bey is fighting with all his might against the trap set for him. When they face each other in the trap, what will Osman Bey do to Boran? Will Boran's death be at the hands of Osman Bey?<br/><br/>MELIKE HATUN'S REVENGE PLAN<br/>Yakup Bey, Ibrahim Bey, and Melike Hatun have returned to the nomad market. Melike Hatun's only desire is to seek revenge from Alaeddin, Gonca, and all the Kayi tribe. Melike Hatun takes a surprising path for revenge. What is Melike Hatun's plan?<br/><br/>WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO GONCA HATUN?<br/>Gonca Hatun has been captured and brought to her father. What will be the fate of Gonca Hatun, who stands firm in front of Yakup Bey and defends her love?<br/><br/>ALAEDDIN BEY'S TRIAL<br/>As everything comes to a head, Osman Bey is determined to find Ahmet's killer and clear Alaeddin's name. The Judge (Kadi) who will preside over Alaeddin's trial is a key figure. Osman Bey believes that the real killer will be after this Judge. What will be Osman Bey's plan to find the real killer?<br/><br/>WHAT IS OSMAN BEY'S PLAN?<br/>Meanwhile, Melike Hatun meets with Ulcay and asks him to kill the Judge. Will Osman Bey's plan be able to prevent the Judge's death?")
_winger-leaps-high-to-score-epic-try-for-cyms-against-forbes.webp "Winger leaps high to score epic try for Orange CYMS against Forbes Magpies.")
_action-to-be-taken-against-six-rogue-bersatu-mps-says-muhyiddin.webp "Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin says action would be taken very soon against the six Bersatu MPs who declared their support for Prime Minister Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim, with party secretary-general Datuk Seri Hamzah Zainudin taking charge.<br/><br/>Read more at https://tinyurl.com/mur2b72b<br/><br/>WATCH MORE: https://thestartv.com/c/news<br/>SUBSCRIBE: https://cutt.ly/TheStar<br/>LIKE: https://fb.com/TheStarOnline<br/>")
_social-democrats-speak-out-against-far-right-violence-amid-declining-support.webp "German social democrats spoke out against far right violence amid declining support after an attack on Friday night that hospitalised Saxony top candidate for the EU elections Matthias Ecke.")
_ls-polls-2024-radhika-khera-quits-congress-days-after-alleging-insult-124-oneindia.webp "Chhattisgarh Congress leader Radhika Khera tendered her resignation from the party on Sunday, citing recent incidents involving alleged misconduct and discord within party ranks. Khera's decision to step down follows her accusations of \")
_grant-williams-39dissapointed39-by-no-tribute-video-from-celtics-124-interview-w92-cedric-maxwell.webp "Hornets forward Grant Williams talks about his reputation since splitting his season between Dallas & Charlotte, playing with Kyrie Irving and Luka Doncic, and the difference between playing for former Celtics head coach Ime Udoka and Joe Mazzulla.<br/><br/>0:00 Grant Williams joined the show<br/>2:30 Grant on getting trading from Dallas<br/>3:25 Grant on people saying he’s a bad locker room teammate<br/>9:30 Tatum defends Grant<br/>11:07 Playing Tatum and playing with Luka <br/>15:35 Grant on his personality <br/>18:48 How Grant started playing ball<br/>20:20 Kyrie Irving in Dallas<br/>26:44 Mazzulla vs Udoka<br/>31:13 Grant on Ime Udoka suspension<br/>33:05 NBA officiating<br/>37:00 Grant on being traded to Charlotte<br/>42:10 Grant on no tribute video<br/>44:05 Boston fans showed love to Grant<br/>46:25 Grant Williams NBA Finals Prediction<br/><br/>Get in on the excitement with PrizePicks, America’s No. 1 Fantasy Sports App, where you can turn your hoops knowledge into serious cash. Download the app today and use code CLNS for a first deposit match up to $100! Pick more. Pick less. It’s that Easy! Go to https://PrizePicks.com/CLNS<br/><br/>Take the guesswork out of buying NBA tickets with Gametime. Download the Gametime app, create an account, and use code CLNS for $20 off your first purchase. Download Gametime today. Last minute tickets. Lowest Price. Guaranteed. Terms apply.")
_west-brom-3-preston-0-lewis-cox-amp-jonny-drury-analysis.webp "Jonny Drury and Lewis Cox give their take on Albion's final day victory against Preston.<br/>Albion needed a point on the final day to secure a spot in the play-offs - but sauntered to a 3-0 win at The Hawthorns.<br/>Alex Mowatt put West Brom ahead in first half stoppage time - before further goals from Kyle Bartley and Darnell Furlong.")
_lindy-ruff-on-his-evolution-as-a-head-coach.webp "Lindy Ruff joins the Jeremy and Joe Show to discuss how he is re-acclimating himself with Buffalo, his process for a first season with a new team, and how he has evolved as a Head Coach since his last stint in Buffalo.")
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